I find myself fantasising about a hot female colleague at work every time I make love to my wife.
This has got me so nervous that it is slowly affecting my performance at work and also in bed with my wife.
I just cannot help myself, what should I do?
Being married or committed to one partner does not exonerate anyone from being attracted to, having a crush, lust or fantasizing about other people.
Perhaps it is just a hint that your s.e.x life needs some excitement.